Sunday, July 19, 2026

Define Marriage

Disclaimer:  The following applies to marriages generally and not to any particular marriage I might be involved in.  😉

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Marriage:  the unforeseen consequence of a wedding.


Marriage:  a state of bliss in which if one partner dies unexpectedly, the other is the prime suspect.


Marriage: the process by which, after two become one, they decide which one.


Marriage:  a partnership formed with no clear objective and sustained by the absence of any clear alternative.

Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Four Thoughts

 It is a shame to keep a deep dark secret from the one person who might most help you to bear its burden.


It is sad when a relationship survives all the reasons it could never work only to fail because you neglected the reasons it should have worked.


There are words said in the heat of argument that cannot be unsaid.  You can only hope that love will unhear.


The ultimate test of love is a test of forgiveness, and no one so tested will ever ask again, "What is love?"  

Friday, July 3, 2026

Ah, Perspective!

A summer vacation seems wonderful in prospect,  but then, in the actual experience, it so often diminishes to the point of becoming a series of irritations, until, inevitably, it retreats into memory and becomes wonderful again. 

And therein lies the question -- if you look forward to your vacation with great anticipation and remember it with wistful pleasure, does it really matter if you didn't actually enjoy it?