Archive Of Today's Thoughts

Jan 16, 2019:
"The hope in a two-party system is that the 2 + 2 = 3 party and the 2 + 2 = 5 party can work out a compromise."

Jan 15, 2019:
"To know the innermost fears of anyone is to know the innermost fears of everyone."

Jan 14, 2019:
"I remember a different time -- when if you did what was clearly and morally right, you didn't have to explain your reasoning."

Jan 13, 2019:
"You complain of the passing years, but then you look in a mirror and realize that very few of them actually got past."

Jan 12, 2019:
"Nothing lasts forever, although it is hard to think of a human emotion that doesn't assume something will."

Jan 11, 2019:
"We each have two reputations -- the one by which we are known to the world and the one by which we are known to ourselves. There is still time to repair the second." 

Jan 10, 2019:
"The thing most missed from childhood days is the ability to recognize happiness while in progress." 

Jan 9, 2019:
"There are days when your life seems like a furniture arrangement where everything is where you told the delivery guy to leave it for now." 

Jan 8, 2019:
"Every family has arguments that scare the dog.  The concern is when they alarm the cat." 

Jan 7, 2019:
"There is no limit to what one person can do, which is fortunate, because that is who most of us are." 

Jan 6, 2019:
"The brain forgets much, but the lower back remembers everything -- and is far less inclined to nostalgia." 

Jan 5, 2019:
"At some point you have to decide if you want to be a success or just someone who was never to blame for anything going wrong." 

Jan 4, 2019:
"We find in ourselves the strength to overcome every obstacle, which is a good thing, because we also find in ourselves every obstacle." 

Jan 3, 2019:
"Ah, yes, the real you -- rarely someone you end up being.  Rather, someone you briefly were before common sense prevailed." 

Jan 2, 2019:
"I have come to believe this about self-esteem -- that a false sense of it is better than none." 

Jan 1, 2019:
"New Year's Day -- a good time to list all the things you regularly do for which there was once a good reason." 

Dec 31, 2018:
No matter what you accomplish in life, a part of you still sits at a curbside, still hearing the drumbeat of a distant parade, still waiting for it to turn the corner." 

Dec 30, 2018:
Too often the answer to the question, "What in God's name were you thinking?" is that you weren't thinking in God's name.

Dec 29, 2018:
"The mind is an exclusive club, a new belief admitted only on the recommendation of a present member."

Dec 28, 2018:
"It's a funny thing -- nostalgia.  It's like seeing an R-rated movie and recalling only the preview approved for all audiences."

Dec 27, 2018:
"Every great achievement can be traced to a dream, a plan and an underestimate."

Dec 26, 2018:
"As you wait for better days, don't forget to enjoy today, in case they've already started."

Dec 25, 2018:
"Once, in a far corner of a vast, empty universe, there was a tiny planet, orbited by a sleigh and eight miniature reindeer."

Dec 21, 2018:
The question, "How would my being there help?" is best answered by going there and finding out.

Dec 20, 2018:
"Our lead story today is that 99% of the world's population went honestly about its business.  In other news..."

Dec 19, 2018:
"Don't know about you, but I have such a great set of New Year's resolutions this year that I can hardly wait for January 1."

Dec 18, 2018:
"The time to question your sanity is not when everything seems out of whack but when everything seems to be in perfectly normal whack."

Dec 17, 2018:
"Occasionally it's good to pause, take a moment and inventory all the things in your life that are just fine."

Dec 16, 2018:
"There is no law that says the things that make your day can't be every bit as trivial as the things that ruin it."

Dec 15, 2018:
"An easy life is never so fondly recalled as the happy moments of a hard one."

Dec 14, 2018:
"One day in your life's journey, you come to a fork in the road, and you choose one of two paths, only to realize that you chose unwisely.  So you retrace your steps to the fork in the road, and there lie two paths, and it is the choice you make then that shapes your life."

Dec 13, 2018:
It's a tricky word -- "everybody."  When you hear, "Everybody's doing it," it never includes you, and when you think, "Everybody knows that," it never includes anybody else.

Dec 12, 2018:
"As a general guideline, if you aren't happy having enough, you won't be happier having more."

Dec 11, 2018:
"Nearly always, the person we think would be better off without us would be better off with a better us."

Dec 10, 2018:
"Sometimes, making ourselves happy is just a case of wanting to make someone happy and taking the path of least resistance."

Dec 9, 2018:
"I'm not sure I believe in fate or destiny -- but chance?  Chance doesn't just happen."

Dec 8, 2018:
"Never mind what the world expects of you.  It is too low a standard to be concerned about."

Dec 7, 2018:
"Sometimes there are no words to say, and all you can do as a friend is to show up and not say them."

Dec 6, 2018:
"You don't become beautiful in someone's eyes by being beautiful but by finding the right someone."

Dec 5, 2018:
"Happiness?  Simple, really.  You don't let short-term concerns ruin your life, and you don't let long-term concerns ruin your day."

Dec 4, 2018:
"One proof that something you did was kind and considerate is that it didn't cost you anything."

Dec 3, 2018:
"It's a risky chance -- living a life of sin and planning to repent on your deathbed, but it's probably a better chance than living a life of penance and planning to sin on your deathbed."

Dec 2, 2018:
"It is a rare marriage that celebrates the anniversary of only one promise."

Dec 1, 2018:
"There are tragedies in life that change us forever, the person we once were mistakenly listed among the survivors."

Nov 30, 2018:
"It is possible, I think, to become the person you were born to be and decide you can do better."

Nov 29, 2018:
"There was once a different time, when a moment of civility did not catch you so completely by surprise."

Nov 28, 2018:
"Each day, awakening, are we asked to paint the sky blue?  Need we coax the sun to rise or flowers to bloom?  Need we teach birds to sing or children to laugh?  No, though we think the world imperfect, it surrounds us each day with its perfections.  We are not asked to create a perfect world.  We are asked only to live in harmony with it."

Nov 27, 2018:
"It is unlikely that a child taught to distrust others will make an exception of the teacher."

Nov 26, 2018:
"One advantage of having lived a few years is knowing when some cutting-edge new idea won't work because it never has."

Nov 25, 2018:
"There is no bridge to excellence.  It is a tightrope you walk over a sheer and sudden drop into the ordinary."

Nov 24, 2018:
"There is a cherished moment in memory when you were young... and love was new... and your partner was perfect... and you were perfectible."

Nov 23, 2018:
"It is a perverse cynicism that robs the younger generation of its wealth, unfunds its education, pollutes its environment and then loses all hope for it."

Nov 22, 2018:
"Lord, we gather as a family to thank Thee for all Thy blessings, most especially for making us this family and granting us this gathering."

Nov 21, 2018:
"The thing about people who understand you is that when they are gone, you can still visit them, and they still understand you."

Nov 20, 2018:
"The idea that nobody cares is always based on an insufficient sampling."

Nov 19, 2018:
"Sometimes the search for happiness takes us down a familiar street to an old address."

Nov 18, 2018:
"We do nothing more foolish in our quest for more than to risk what is already more than enough."

Nov 17, 2018:
"Nothing challenges your hopes for the human race like meeting someone to whom everything makes perfect sense."

Nov 16, 2018:
"I would tell you the secret to success if I knew what part of getting up, dressed and out the door every day was a secret."

Nov 15, 2018:
"A shattered dream is like broken glass -- a stray piece is always turning up somewhere."

Nov 14, 2018:
"What a unique treasure are the things we have learned to live without, for no one can take them from us."

Nov 13, 2018:
"We envy others, for we see their lives in broad outline, while forced to live ours in every detail."

Nov 12, 2018:
"We never forget our lost opportunities.  It is the memory of our excuses we would have had to preserve in writing."

Nov 11, 2018:
"There is hope for a country whose veterans still wave its flag and wear with pride its badges of honor."

Nov 10, 2018:
"It is a common misperception that people who lie and cheat to get what they want know what they want."

Nov 9, 2018:
"The problem with trying to disguise our age to retain our youthful looks is that our age is so often better looking."

Nov 8, 2018:
The trouble with settling for "good enough" is that it's so hard to distinguish it from "almost good enough."

Nov 7, 2018:
"I have rarely heard anything described as part of a larger plan that didn't make me wish there were a smaller plan."

Nov 6, 2018:
"The promise to love forever is always based on the merest taste of love and the tiniest sampling of forever."

Nov 5, 2018:
A question I always ask myself before voting is this:  "Would I ever want to find myself at this person's mercy?"

Nov 4, 2018:
"There is a reason for everything -- if you don't always insist that it be adequate."

Nov 3, 2018:

"It is no secret but worth repeating.  At the core of all prejudice lies self-loathing.  At the heart of all tolerance lies self-esteem."

Nov 2, 2018:
"I have learned to give people the benefit of the doubt, because, to be honest, I don't know a lot of people who have benefited from my certainty."

Nov 1, 2018:
There are times when you just have to look in the mirror and say, "I will if you will."

Oct 31, 2018:
"Of what use to get what you want in life if you must become someone else to get it?"

Oct 30, 2018:
"The first step toward finding the one answer is to see it all as one mystery."

Oct 29, 2018:
"Actions have consequences, often mistaken for evil forces conspiring against us."

Oct 28, 2018:
"What every clever liar eventually discovers is that telling the truth would not only have been more honest but more clever."

Oct 27, 2018:
"We are, in the course of a lifetime, many different people occupying the same body, not all familiar with the etiquette of time-sharing."

Oct 26, 2018:
"One advantage of silence over words is that there's a wider range of things you can claim you didn't mean by it."

Oct 25, 2018:
"There is a difference between not knowing because you never asked, not hearing because you never listened, not seeing because you looked away -- and not being responsible."

Oct 24, 2018:
"There are two parts to moving on in life -- living to tell about it and never speaking of it again."

Oct 23, 2018:
"It's frustrating when people don't understand you -- and even more frustrating when the people who understand you keep getting you all wrong"

Oct 22, 2018:
"There are personal secrets I would not reveal under torture.  There would have to be a silence at a cocktail party, or you would have to be sitting next to me in tourist class."

Oct 21, 2018:
"Some, tired of wondering, turn to faith for answers.  Others, tired of answers, turn to faith for wonder."

Oct 20, 2018:
"The best proof that you are still capable of learning is that there is something you recently unlearned."

Oct 19, 2018:
"The easiest way to remove the clutter from your life is to leave the clutter where it is and put yourself out on the curb."

Oct 18, 2018:
"The person we often forget to thank for our success is the person who never offered us less."

Oct 17, 2018:
"Achievement is nearly always a mosaic, patched together by picking up the pieces."

Oct 16, 2018:
"Even at my age I worry about what people will think of me.  I mean, if they should ever start."

Oct 15, 2018:
"Ah, yes, good versus evil -- good offering the greater reward, evil the shorter wait."

Oct 14, 2018:
"Life is a series of paths you don't know you're choosing... decisions you don't know you're making... farewells you don't know you're saying."

Oct 13, 2018:
"The surest way to become the person you're intended to be is to be the one who intends it."

Oct 12, 2018:
"Never mind the value of Granddad's dollar in today's money.  What about the value of Granddad's word in today's morals?"

Oct 11, 2018:
"In the end it's all about faith, for without faith there would be no hope, and without hope there would be no charity."

Oct 10, 2018:
"There is a reason for everything, if you don't absolutely insist that it be adequate."

Oct 9, 2018:
"Once you see yourself as a victim of circumstance, the supply of circumstances becomes infinite."

Oct 8, 2018:
"If I had my life to live over, I would decide at an earlier age that life is too short to drink cheap wine."

Oct 7, 2018:
"It's never fun, but sometimes you must lose a battle to know you're on the right side."

Oct 6, 2018:
"There is an inclination to treat unjustly those whose only crime is that we have unjustly treated them."

Oct 5, 2018:
"Essential to happiness is the ability to discard one's regrets once they have served their purpose."

Oct 4, 2018:
"You can charge boldly ahead and trust to fortune, or you can take small daily steps and trust to inevitability."

Oct 3, 2018:
"Life is probably the best test ever designed to find out who your friends are."

Oct 2, 2018:
"The way rabbits multiply, you'd think they were part birthday candle."

Oct 1, 2018:
"Only in the playworld of a child's imagination is there a logical reason for everything."

Sep 30, 2018:
"Most of we know of the human soul goes by the name of music appreciation."

Sep 29, 2018:
"There are few complete victories in life.  We advance by half-step, succeed by partial success."

Sep 28, 2018:
"Once there were kings and queens, and we were all subjects.  Now there are politicians, and we are all objects."

Sep 27, 2018:
"You don't have to be an optimist to know that many a bright day hides in a morning mist."

Sep 26, 2018:
"A political party is like any other clever conspiracy.  The people it conspires against think they are part of it.

Sep 25, 2018:
"As between God, country and apple pie, politicians have done the least harm in the name of apple pie.

Sep 24, 2018:
"What matters is how we treat each other as individuals, never mind that we despair of each other as a species."

Sep 23, 2018:
"Never be more insistent until you have tried being less insistent."

Sep 22, 2018:
"You hate to give evil a motive, seeing what it does with just opportunity."

Sep 21, 2018:
"Not everyone believes in prayer or miracles, but everyone, at some point, prays for a miracle."

Sep 20, 2018:
"Gratitude, respect, friendship -- funny how it's never called loyalty when there's actually a reason for it."

Sep 19, 2018:
"If you would spread your faith, you must exude your faith.  The best advocacy is not merely persuasive, it is contagious."

Sep 18, 2018:
So I said to myself, "There but for the grace of God, go I," only to realize that I was looking in a mirror and had seriously overestimated the grace of God.

Sep 17, 2018:
"You can plan a picnic, hoping for a sunny day, but sometimes a sunny day just pops up and requires your immediate attention."

Sep 16, 2018:
"Persuasion is the gentle art of planting a thought in someone's head just before it occurs to them." 

Sep 15, 2018:
"I refuse to regret based on what I know now, there being so much to regret based on what I knew then." 

Sep 14, 2018:
"It's not about finding fun things to do.  It's about finding someone in whose company, it's all fun." 

Sep 13, 2018:
"Most people who have an opinion about everything have actually just one opinion that applies to everything." 

Sep 12, 2018:
"There is a final stage in the relaxation of morals where everything is offensive but it doesn't offend anyone." 

Sep 11, 2018:
"You can live the same life happily with trust or unhappily with suspicion." 

Sep 10, 2018:
"There is something in human nature that falls into the traps suspicion sets but keeps the promises trust never asks." 

Sep 9, 2018:
"I would gladly go back and travel the road not taken, if I knew at the end of it, I'd find the same set of grandkids." 

Sep 8, 2018:
"You can be sure that someone who ridicules others in your presence ridicules you in their presence." 

Sep 7, 2018:
"There is no bridge to excellence.  It is a tightrope you walk over a sheer and sudden drop into the ordinary." 

Sep 6, 2018:
"There can be heroism in the moment, but courage is always in the day-to-day." 

Sep 5, 2018:
"As important as keeping a grasp on reality is keeping a grasp on possibility." 

Sep 4, 2018:
"The ultimate regret is to realize that what you asked of life was never sufficient to make you happy." 

Sep 3, 2018:
"The thing about punctual people is that they are reliably punctual, whereas people who are always ten minutes late are never reliably ten minutes late." 

Sep 2, 2018:
"A good time to pause and reexamine your life is when you find yourself supporting the devil because he shares your goals." 

Sep 1, 2018:
"There's a limit to how much you can change to be liked for who you really are." 

Aug 31, 2018:
"Let me put it this way -- nothing ever brings me back to reality that doesn't remind me why I left." 

Aug 30, 2018:
"I dunno, it just seems that God-fearing people don't fear God as much as they used to." 

Aug 29, 2018:
"A nod of recognition today to all the jobs that magically do themselves -- and to the women who do them." 

Aug 28, 2018:
"When I am gone, my love, do not look for me in the places we used to go to together.  Look for me in the places we always planned to go to together." 

Aug 27, 2018:
"Yes, there are reasons why no one could ever love you -- and someone to love you exactly for those reasons." 

Aug 26, 2018:
"The end of the world?  I suppose it's when there's no one left in your life to tell you it isn't." 

Aug 25, 2018:
"You can look ahead to happiness, and you look behind at it, but it's so hard to notice it to your left or right." 

Aug 24, 2018:
"Though you lose all hope, there is still hope -- and it loves to surprise."

Aug 23, 2018:
"You get to an age when no matter what happens, you wish someone would put a stop to it."

Aug 22, 2018:
"It is not unreasonable to have faith in that which is necessary for your happiness."

Aug 21, 2018:
"As a dispenser of goods and services, government is a vending machine that swallows every other quarter."

Aug 20, 2018:
"Life is a series of adult choices, most of which life will try to get you to make before age 21."

Aug 19, 2018:
"Never wonder if you did the best you could without allowing for the possibility that you did."

Aug 18, 2018:
"Another day, another chance that the happiness you don't dare to seek will wander into your comfort zone."

Aug 17, 2018:
"Just as darkness is the absence of light, ignorance is the absence of knowledge, and should not be mistaken for a point of view."

Aug 16, 2018:
"Do I believe in miracles?  Let me put it this way -- I believe in miracle workers."

Aug 15, 2018:
"So often the idea that something's stopping you is an obstacle illusion."

Aug 14, 2018:
"Pure evil does not promote itself as evil but as purity."

Aug 13, 2018:
"You see three people together these days and you wonder if they're conspiring against the government -- and if not, why not?"

Aug 12, 2018:
"Be careful of what you become in order to acquire things, because one day the things you acquired will be gone, and you will be left only with what you've become." 

Aug 11, 2018:
"You can say that success is a matter of luck, but there are two kinds of luck --  the luck of the draw and the luck of taking the pot without showing your hand." 

Aug 10, 2018:
"I long ago decided to be a first-rate me, although being a second-rate somebody else might have paid better." 

Aug 9, 2018:
"The key to doing fun things in retirement is have a spouse who has already bought the tickets and already made the reservations." 

Aug 8, 2018:
"The hardest thing we ask of love is to trust after having been certain." 

Aug 7, 2018:
"Life is short, but think how much shorter it would be if it didn't include things that can't possibly be happening." 

Aug 6, 2018:
"I am thankful for my dream -- that elusive butterfly I have chased all my life -- and thankful that it was elusive enough to last a lifetime." 

Aug 5, 2018:
"If you are not on your guard, putting on your unhappiness in the morning can become as instinctive as putting on your clothes." 

Aug 4, 2018:
"A common justification that probably won't work on Judgment Day is misquoting the Sermon on the Mount." 

Aug 3, 2018:
A good friend is someone who can detect the cry for help in the words, "I'm okay." 

Aug 2, 2018:
"A rule I try to follow is to never let my day be ruined by something that wouldn't matter to me otherwise." 

Aug 1, 2018:
"Yes, commitment requires energy, but, fortunately, it is the best known source of it." 

Jul 31, 2018:
"You have to decide what your duty is, otherwise others will decide for you, and they will all be experts on the subject." 

Jul 30, 2018:
"By the time a person who has a hundred reasons has given you two of them, you realize there isn't going to be any good one." 

Jul 29, 2018:
"One of the assumptions in the battle against illegal immigration is that somewhere in the world there's a country whose borders were established legally." 

Jul 28, 2018:
Today's bit of free advice: "Never say anything in public that you are hearing for the first time." 

Jul 27, 2018:
Asked to account for his long life, the old-timer said, "I have never missed an opportunity to save my breath." 

Jul 26, 2018:
"Life is an educational process you can't opt out of.  You either learn the lesson, or you become the lesson." 

Jul 25, 2018:
"There is a point in every success story where the quest becomes the reality and going home again the impossible dream." 

Jul 24, 2018:
Sign at a petting zoo:  "Adults must be accompanied by a child." 

Jul 23, 2018:
At a time when so many have a sense of impending doom, I like a definition of optimism I once heard -- "a sense of impending salvation." 

Jul 22, 2018:
If I try to do the right thing, it is not so that people will say, "Thank you,"  but so that people will say, "I figured it was you." 

Jul 21, 2018:
"Ah, yes, the real me -- someone I'm reasonably sure my parents would never have let me play with." 

Jul 20, 2018:
"Most of the necessary jobs in life are done by people paid half of what a man would be paid to do the same thing." 

Jul 19, 2018:
"In the end, the best gift you can give your parents is some small evidence that they did something right." 

Jul 18, 2018:
"I've learned this -- that if you're ever going to take on a challenge, you're going to take it on before you're ready." 

Jul 11, 2018:
"Yes, sometimes we fall short, but you don't normally climb a ten-step staircase without falling short nine times." 

Jul 10, 2018:
"May it be said of you that you had your shortcomings but being stopped by your shortcomings wasn't one of them." 

Jul 9, 2018:
"A good test of one's personal credo is to recite it and see how far you get before you start misquoting Scripture and misinterpreting the Constitution." 

Jul 8, 2018:
"Be the master of your fate, be the captain of your soul, but do not hesitate, should the chance arise, to be the slave of your heart." 

Jul 7, 2018:
"One learns to ignore criticism by first learning to ignore applause." 

Jul 6, 2018:
"The challenge of every day is to establish some relationship between what you want from life and your Daily Planner." 

Jul 5, 2018:
"Why do I sometimes let my emotions get the better of me?   For the same reason I let it rain last Tuesday." 

Jul 4, 2018:
"No matter what you accomplish in life, a part of you still sits at a curbside, still hearing the drumbeat of a distant parade, still waiting for it to turn the corner." 

Jul 3, 2018:
"I have been humbled by praise, and I have been humbled by whiffing on the first tee, and, I dunno, it's different." 

Jul 2, 2018:
"What would I do with 15 minutes of fame?  Seek a secluded spot and hope to ride it out." 

Jul 1, 2018:
"There are few decisions man has made about animal welfare where it wouldn't have more judicial to recuse himself." 

Jun 30, 2018:
"The tricky thing about cowardice is that it loves to pose as the common sense thing to do." 

Jun 29, 2018:
"We are born with an instinct for self-preservation, the purpose of life being to find a motive for it." 

Jun 28, 2018:
"Set your hopes for the young no higher than your example." 

Jun 27, 2018:
"One of life's regrets is how few goodbyes you say compared to the number of people you never see again." 

Jun 26, 2018:
"Few are humble, for it requires a self-esteem that few possess." 

Jun 25, 2018:
                           On Searching For Happiness

"How little you know
As you follow its track
How much of the search
Will be circling back." 

Jun 24, 2018:
"The surest way to become the person you were meant to be is to take upon yourself to mean it." 

Jun 23, 2018:
"You have to believe there's a little good in everyone, although it is startling, sometimes, just how little." 

Jun 22, 2018:
"The difference between chance and destiny is that chance is more likely to be chiseled in stone." 

Jun 21, 2018:
"We are all multiple personalities, sanity being the knack of settling on one spokesperson." 

Jun 20, 2018:
"If you have to get down on your knees to beg for justice, what will you do for mercy?" 

Jun 19, 2018:
"Nothing supports evil like the assumption of good people that there is some sort of line it will not cross." 

Jun 18, 2018:
"The principal social grace is to just find the other person interesting." 

Jun 17, 2018:
"No one lacks a hope and a prayer who somewhere has a mom still praying and a dad still hoping." 

Jun 16, 2018:
"No one is indispensable.  You live, you die, and everything you thought was your fault goes right on happening." 

Jun 15, 2018:
"I like friends who, when you tell them you need a moment alone, know enough not to stray too far." 

Jun 14, 2018:
"I dunno, you get to a point in life where you'd settle for life, liberty and the pursuit of can't complain." 

Jun 13, 2018:
"If you only believe what you know for sure, you do not understand the purpose of belief."

Jun 12, 2018:
I see the smiling faces in old family photos, and I'm thinking there ought to be a caption: "Based on what we knew at the time."

Jun 11, 2018:
"There is no such thing as a list of reasons.  There is either one sufficient reason or a list of excuses."

Jun 10, 2018:
"Is it so much that love asks -- that one day you be its strength and the next day its babe-in-arms?"

Jun 9, 2018:
"Do things while you can and while they matter to you, because neither is a permanent state of affairs."

Jun 8, 2018:
"The longer the list of reasons, the less likely that it includes the real one."

Jun 7, 2018:
There are people who never say, "In my opinion... ."  They say, "The reality is... ." when the reality is, it's their opinion.

Jun 6, 2018:
It's generally a good idea not to say "I love you" if there's something you don't mean by it.

Jun 5, 2018:
"On the one hand, I'd like to expect the best from everyone I meet.  On the other hand, that would make me a cocker spaniel."

Jun 4, 2018:
"Let me put it this way -- I don't know everything, but the older I get, the less I have to hear to know the rest."

Jun 3, 2018:
"Last I heard from my destiny, it wanted me to go one-quarter mile and make a legal U-Turn."

Jun 2, 2018:
"You can make the best of today and work for a better tomorrow, but why not make the best of yesterday and work for a better today?"

Jun 1, 2018:
"Nothing in life is so overestimated as the number of temporary  fixes you will get a chance to revisit."

May 31, 2018:
"It's amazing the relationship you can build on just being two people willing to take a chance."

May 11, 2018:
"If loving you less would make you happy, do you suppose your mom wouldn't try?"

May 10, 2018:
"Every believer in chance is just one chance meeting away from believing in destiny."

May 9, 2018:
"One of life's mysteries is how people who never listen can be so misinformed."

May 8, 2018:
"Just when you think you've lost all interest in life, you lose a quarter in a vending machine."

May 7, 2018:
"I've learned this about the graceful exits you make in life -- they are 10% grace and 90% exit."

May 6, 2018:
As I told the telemarketer: "I'd love to give everyone in the world a minute of my time -- and I'd love to live the 13,318 years it would take."

May 5, 2018:
Ignorance hides under many an alias, often with an "ism" at the end of it.

May 4, 2018:
"In public I am who others need me to be.  In private I am who I need me to be.  Who am I really?  Doesn't matter.  Not needed."

May 3, 2018:
"The time to give up and try something new is when every other choice is clearly easier."

May 2, 2018:
"There is a state of denial called hope which is usually more productive than the state of denial called despair."

May 1, 2018:
Sometimes the words, "I miss you" are the "I love you" you never heard.

Apr 30, 2018:
"It is not given to the human heart to love less in order to love equally."

Apr 29, 2018:
"One of the harder transitions in parenting is learning to knock on a door to which, for so long, you had the key."

Apr 28, 2018:
"There's the hard way and the easy way.  The thing about the hard way is that you don't usually waste your life looking for it."

Apr 27, 2018:
"It is wisest, at times, to do nothing and explain it by saying nothing."

Apr 26, 2018:
"It is hard to reason with someone who regards truth as one school of thought."

Apr 25, 2018:
"It is difficult to accomplish anything, when, if you don't, that's okay, too."

Apr 24, 2018:
You can't please everyone, but you can generally please the people who say "Please."

Apr 23, 2018:
"Charisma is the knack of leaving people wondering what wonderful thing they did that you must have heard about."

Apr 22, 2018:
"The hero and the coward have this in common -- that each thinks they did what anyone else would have done."

Apr 21, 2018:
"Honor is something you never think about until you fancy it's been attacked, whereupon you dig it out of mothballs, air it out and defend it to the death."

Apr 20, 2018:
"Yes there are people who take me for granted, and in a world of suspicion and distrust, I consider that an accomplishment."

Apr 19, 2018:
Darwin called the appearance of flowers in evolution "an abominable mystery."  So even if you doubt an intelligent designer, there seems to be evidence of a Florist.

Apr 18, 2018:
"On the whole I would not wish to live a dog's life, except for the times when you show up to help and are told to go lie down."

Apr 17, 2018:
"When it's a chorus against a lone voice, you can usually take a wild guess which is telling the truth."

Apr 16, 2018:
"You can awaken each day to obligations you never chose, or you can decide today to choose them."

Apr 15, 2018:
"What counts in the end is how we treat each other in practice, never mind that we despair of the human race in theory."

Apr 14, 2018:
"To listen only to self-interest, and shut out your conscience, is to gerrymander your own mind."

Apr 13, 2018:
"If you're having one of those days when nothing seems worth doing, there's a list of things worth undoing you can get started on."

Apr 12, 2018:
"One thing about parenting is the flexible hours, which can be any arrangement totaling 24/7."

Apr 11, 2018:
"No kid ever enters his or her teen years with a well-thought-out exit strategy."

Apr 10, 2018:
"Be reluctant to judge a person whose shadow you have never cast."

Apr 9, 2018:
"The trouble with having  a physical body is that people know you're in there somewhere."

Apr 8, 2018:
"There's fact, and there's fiction, which is a good thing, because it's hard to explain anything using just the one."

Apr 7, 2018:
"The tricky thing about cowardice is that it loves to pose as the common sense thing to do."

Apr 6, 2018:
"It would be sad, at the end of your life, to look in the mirror each day and see the only person you forgot to please."

Apr 5, 2018:
"There are reasons why no one could ever love you -- and you can be sure that those who love you know them all.

Apr 4, 2018:
"I had this dream.  It was my memorial service, and friends were fondly recalling the things I used to complain about the least."

Apr 3, 2018:
"I remember well the road I took -- and the friends I traveled with.  Did we ever get to where we were going?  That I don't recall."

Apr 2, 2018:
"It's a basic life choice -- you can travel the interstate and do text stops, or you can take the scenic route and send postcards."

Apr 1, 2018:
"Never lose hope, because miracles happen, and they need something to work with."

Mar 31, 2018:
"There are three dimensions of time, two of which contain better days."

Mar 30, 2018:
"The lesson of Good Friday is to never lose hope -- or at least give it the weekend."

Mar 29, 2018:
"There is in every truth a wise saying, and in every contradiction, two wise sayings."

Mar 28, 2018:
"You don't have to have an opinion about everything, and if you do, not everyone needs to know what it is."

Mar 27, 2018:
"We find hope the way we find happiness -- by giving it to someone else and borrowing a little of it back."

Mar 26, 2018:
"A modest goal for any day is to make everyone you encounter feel a little less invisible."

Mar 25, 2018:
"Finding out that what we've always believed isn't true seldom changes what we've always believed."

Mar 24, 2018:
"Loneliness?  It's like when a stranger gives you the time of day, and you wonder if might deepen into love."

Mar 23, 2018:
"Life is a series of things that seem to be your fault, when it's that damn butterfly flapping its wings in Mongolia."

Mar 22, 2018:
"The one chance to repair a reputation for dishonesty is while you are the only one who knows about it."

Mar 21, 2018:
"It was the usual love match -- he thought she was perfect, and she thought he was perfectible."

Mar 20, 2018:
"Seems like nothing ever brings you back to reality that makes you want to stay there."

Mar 19, 2018:
"The proof that you are loved is not that your perfections are praised but that your imperfections are defended."

Mar 18, 2018:
"If you spend your life waiting for a chance, you are spending your chance waiting."

Mar 17, 2018:
"The trouble with letting trivial things ruin your life is that they keep getting more trivial."

Mar 16, 2018:
"All I ask, if they start investigating my finances, is to let me know if they find any."

Mar 15, 2018:
"Love is a decision you might wisely reconsider, if it were a decision, and you could reconsider it, and you were likely to be any wiser."

Mar 14, 2018:
"Imagine, in the first winter, the odds you could have gotten against the first spring."

Mar 13, 2018:
"It is perhaps unfair to hold against someone the very thing that attracted us to them in the first place."

Mar 12, 2018:
"There is no fonder memory of anyone than of the things that made them happy."

Mar 11, 2018:
"We all want to be liked, often mistaken for wanting to be understood."

Mar 10, 2018:
"The best evidence that you're doing the right thing is that it isn't easy."

Mar 9, 2018:
"There are things happening today that don't make sense, and you dread the sense they would make if they did."

Mar 8, 2018:
"I've been looking over the list of spring chores I made up last fall, and darned of they aren't fall chores, after all."

Mar 7, 2017:
"The best things in life are not only free, they take less closet space."

Mar 6, 2018:
"It is only when we have a child we cannot love enough that we realize why our parents loved us too much." 

Mar 5, 2018:
The conclusion, "Nobody cares," is always based on an insufficient sampling. 

Mar 4, 2018:
"The object of most prayers is to wangle an advance on good intentions." 

Mar 3, 2018:
"Before you discourage a child, recall your own childhood and consider what damage to your self-confidence you now believe was temporary." 

Mar 2, 2018:
"Of what use to appeal to reason if you have not the faith to accept its answer?" 

Mar 1, 2018:
"As a rule of thumb, the more abusive your adversary, the more likely you have the right adversary." 

Feb 28, 2018:
When truth, logic and common sense are all against you, about all you can do is cry "Conspiracy!" 

Feb 27, 2018:
"It is futile to blame our unhappiness on someone who doesn't care, and so we blame it on someone who does." 

Feb 26, 2018:
"In a world of self-confident bluster, do not underestimate the sexiness of being quiet and unassuming and, at times, seeming a little lost." 

Feb 25, 2018:
"How do you find love?  You just keep showing a brave face to the world, and one day it melts someone's heart." 

Feb 24 2018:
"Shall I subtract each day of my life from some imaginary allotment of days left?  No, on the contrary, I shall add each day of my life to my treasure of days lived, and each day my treasure will grow, not diminish." 

Feb 23, 2018:
Despite all the new safety alerts in cars, nothing has ever replaced someone in the passenger's seat shouting, "Dear God!" 

Feb 22, 2018:

"Most often the person for whom we would climb any mountain and swim any sea would settle for a little conversation at dinner." 

Feb 21, 2018:

"We tend to cherish the things for which we have sacrificed most, nothing more than the lie for which we sacrificed the truth." 

Feb 20, 2018:

"If the good Lord had intended me to make excuses for who I am, He would have given me better excuses." 

Feb 19, 2018:

"Nothing we feel entitled to ever comes to us in sufficient abundance to make us happy." 

Feb 18, 2018:
"Beware a belief that has long withstood the test of not being challenged." 

Feb 17, 2018:
"A partial action is better than a full intention."

Feb 16, 2018:
"I would rather be mortal and know that death is inescapable than be immortal and know that life is inescapable. "

Feb 15, 2018:
"We don't get to choose happiness over sorrow.  We get to choose a full life over an empty one -- and take what it brings."

Feb 14, 2018:
"Some say that true love is a mirage.  Seek it anyway, for all else is surely desert."

Feb 13, 2018:
"We are, each of us, a private soul hiding behind a public mask, complaining that our private soul gets no understanding."

Feb 12, 2018:
"To achieve great success, you must not only ignore your critics, you must ignore friends telling you you're doing the best you can."

Feb 11, 2018:
"A good part of leadership is interpreting blank looks as agreement."

Feb 10, 2018:
"Eventually you realize that nothing that benefits you and you alone benefits anyone,"

Feb 9, 2018:
"Never mind what the world expects of you.  It is too low a standard to be concerned about."

Feb 8, 2018:
"Ever get the feeling that sometime early in your life there was a briefing you missed?"

Feb 7, 2018:
"About all you can do as a parent is to make the recommended mistakes at the recommended age and trust to God."

Feb 6, 2018:
"If it ain't broke, don't fix it" -- a reason, every so often, to break it.

Feb 5, 2018:
"The attraction of a lie is that it invites us into an exclusive club, whereas the truth welcomes all."

Feb 4, 2018:
"A relationship is in trouble not when the passion goes but when the everyday courtesies go."

Feb 3, 2018:
"They are Godseekers both, the churchgoing believer and the pilgrim to an unknown shrine."

Feb 2, 2018:
"One rule I try to follow is to never say anything in public that I am hearing for the first time."

Feb 1, 2018:
"You can complain of others taking you for granted, or you can make it your achievement and your happiness."