Tuesday, March 4, 2025

We Stayed Together For The Kids


We stayed together for the kids,

Two kids we barely knew,

Who once upon a moonlit night

Back when the world was new,

Resolved to love forevermore 

And stay forever true.



 

Sunday, March 2, 2025

Wait...Say That Again

If you can remember it without tears, it wasn't happiness.


Ever wonder what history would look like if we stopped trying to force everything into chronological order?


I picture myself in a court of law testifying to everything I was taught as a child -- and it's all thrown out as leading the witness. 




If today the world were perfect, with what aching nostalgia would we look back on the Age of Possibility. 


If God is an illusion, then I have this question -- can you have an illusion without an Illusionist? 


You can't look at the night sky without wondering how this tiny enterprise called Planet Earth will ever justify its overhead.

Friday, February 28, 2025

Thoughts on Hope, Old and New

You might, perhaps, give up on yourself, but would you so easily give up on others in your life you care deeply about? And might that be the secret to sustaining hope -- each of us being another's hope? I will not give up on you if you will not give up on me.  




Hope is not a plan, but without hope, nothing else is a plan, either.


Why would you chase a hopeless dream?  Perhaps for the dream. Perhaps for the chase.  Perhaps to meet another hopeless dreamer.


What does a lifetime of hope give you?  It gives you a hopeful life, and in the end, what more can you hope for?

Wednesday, February 26, 2025

And No One The Wiser

 It is now 65 years since I published my first "aphorism," thus striking off on the tangent that became a life's journey. I had, at the start, a high opinion of the aphorism as an art form, characterizing it as 

"A single sentence that totally exhausts its subject."  


In later years, I became a bit less reverent of the genre, offering the following observation:

"The aphorist finds in every truth a wise saying and in ever contradiction -- two wise sayings."


And today, in the clarity of old age, I offer two candid assessments, including a definition of the word  "aphorism" that I suspect will prove definitive:

"One is more apt to become wise by doing fool things than by reading wise sayings."

"Aphorism:  a truth trivialized by cleverness."


Don't say you weren't warned. (smile)

Sunday, February 23, 2025

Sunday Sermonettes

There resides in the human soul a sense of unworthiness, which, if you deny the existence of a Higher Good, raises the question,, "Compared to what?"


What you know for sure about someone qualified to speak for God is that you are equally qualified.


It is always the good who judge themselves.  The wicked know enough to ask for a jury.

 

A religious belief can be true although all who proclaim it publicly privately doubt it; indeed when all who proclaim it publicly are hypocrites. 


There are the truths you try to live by and the lies that make it possible.


Friday, February 21, 2025

Mind Droppings

 If there is a lesson to be learned from reading biographies, it is that no one enters this life with a plan.


To know all the facts about anyone is to be considerably more informed on the subject than they are.


It is always the member last admitted who believes that standards for membership should now be raised.


Many a high school drop-out believes in a God who is all-knowing, but few believe in a God who is better educated.


You will never change someone's mind who regards everything you tell them as a nefarious plot to change their mind.


If you believe that there is only so much wealth to go around, you will eventually believe that there is only so much freedom to go around.


If there's one thing evil does well, and good not so well, it is to establish societies for its preservation. 


It is the goal of the unjust not to defy the law but to become the law.


Sunday, February 16, 2025

Thoughts at Age 86+


 "To be beautiful, you need only be beautiful in someone's eyes, and it continually amazes how little actual beauty that requires."



"It is hard, when you discover that someone can't handle the truth, not to keep telling it to them."


"There is a point in getting to know you when people come to understand you, but how do you tell them to stop right there?"


"I shudder to think...which is why I have largely given up the practice."


"Sometimes it seems like you've spent your whole life preparing for an inspection that never happened."


"Life never tires of testing the proposition that life must go on."


"It always surprises how much of any human emotion is just time that needs to go by."